Community practices are a set of guidelines or ways of being that a community wants to practice together. We use the word "practices" rather than "rules" because humans make mistakes and that's okay. Humans are also conditioned in so many ways: white supremacy, patriarchy, capitalism. This conditioning takes time and practice to undo so that we are behaving in more compassionate, equitable, & accountable ways. We are practicing to be in community together in compassionate, equitable ways. 
 

1. Speak respectfully: consider the impact of your words. Intention may be good and consider how your words may land on others. 
2. Make space, take space: be responsible for representing your perspective/speaking up and being impacted by the perspectives of others. Be responsible for how much space you take up, as well, and how that may impact others from sharing their own perspective. 
3. Talk and listen from the heart. Further, listen actively. That means: listening with your whole body, with full presence. When speaking from the heart, use "I" statements and speak for yourself -- not whole communities or experiences. Recognize that there are multiple truths & perspectives so always speak from your individual perspective. 
4. Be responsible for your personal self-care and safety. This means: take a break when you need it, have your snacks & beverages handy, do what you gotta do to radically care for yourself. 
5. "The Vegas Rule": What is said here, stays here. What is learned here, leaves here. Honor the confidentiality and vulnerability of others by never sharing personal stories shared by others. Feel free to share your lessons & learnings but never personal stories.
6. Compassion + Curiosity + Courage = Community 
7. Accept & expect a lack of closure. We may not be able to tie up all conversations in these two days but know that we will continue to hold these spaces for our community. 
8. Most importantly… have fun, care for yourself + each other, and enjoy this space together.